There are specs. I wouldn't say they aren't important, but you are just taking the edge off. I do it with a file by hand til you can barely see it. You can use a dremel but taking off too much will possibly change your port timing and lose some power.
I take my cylinders to the guy we used when I worked in an automotive garage as I trust him and he does good work, but he doesn't chamfer. Any 2 stroke place will do it in 10 minutes for cheap and if you are not experienced, might be the way to go. If you went to a 2 stroke place, they should have definitely done it or I would question their work.