Dave Ramsey, debt, credit cards, retirement, etc

Scorn800

Ride for life
Location
North NJ
That is one thing I will teach my kids...no credit cards in college!!!! Those loan sharks are in every student union with free college hats, t-shirts, ipods, just for signing up. Rotten bastards.

I use to like all that free stuff. I would sign up everytime and put down all the wrong info. I would get the free stuff then get denied the card. Worked great for me.
 

djkorn1

kidkornfilms
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Cleveland Ohio
Have to differ with you DJ ! Credit cards are a tool and a good thing when used correctly . I gave both my kids a credit cards for college with a $2- K limit and it all turned out great ! I had the bill sent to me monthly ,and they were to use it for necessary items only . Any thing in question had to be cleared with mom or dad first , great tool ! If my college kid cannot be trusted to use a credit card wisely it would only mean I failed somewhere in the previous years !! College is for learning , why not teach them how to use money and credit wisely !

I agree partially, Frank. I just don't want them to sign up for their 'own' credit card in the student union that I am not monitoring. They will be 'buying' part of their education on credit, so I'm not completely against credit...College is where I got a bunch of credit cards and bought a bunch of crap I didn't need.
 

SuperJETT

So long and thanks for all the fish
Location
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100 year old Dorothy Custer on Leno says the best invention of the past 100 years is the microwave and the worst is **the credit card**.
http://www.nbc.com/the-tonight-show...|featured|recent&ectid=bitlyified062120111015


BTW, because of getting out of debt/saving/etc, I'm able to take advantage of a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to take a month off from work next month. Our kids are 9/7/5 and being able to take a month off while they're out of school and actually want to do things with me is priceless. Thanks to doing the work years ago we can afford it. All nay-sayers can suck it.
 

SXIPro

JM781 Big Bore
100 year old Dorothy Custer on Leno says the best invention of the past 100 years is the microwave and the worst is **the credit card**.
http://www.nbc.com/the-tonight-show...|featured|recent&ectid=bitlyified062120111015


BTW, because of getting out of debt/saving/etc, I'm able to take advantage of a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to take a month off from work next month. Our kids are 9/7/5 and being able to take a month off while they're out of school and actually want to do things with me is priceless. Thanks to doing the work years ago we can afford it. All nay-sayers can suck it.

Outstanding. While most of the rest of America will be working long hours and multiple jobs to keep up with the Joneses, you'll be chillen with the kids and I am guessing visiting some cool places together as a family. Talk about winning. Well done.
 

SuperJETT

So long and thanks for all the fish
Location
none
Yep, we have a vacation to Hilton Head in the middle of it plus the girls are going to YMCA camp for a week at the beginning, so I'll have a week of just my wife and 5 year old son. I'm planning on taking him camping or something for a couple of days during that week to let my wife have a true 'break' from kids/everything.
 
I agree partially, Frank. I just don't want them to sign up for their 'own' credit card in the student union that I am not monitoring. They will be 'buying' part of their education on credit, so I'm not completely against credit...College is where I got a bunch of credit cards and bought a bunch of crap I didn't need.

x2 Thats what happened to me... Luckily I have them almost all paid off...
 

SeaLion

Jet Ski Junkie
Darin, Nice going man. It will be time well spent. Having no debt is what's enabling me to not sweat, stress or worry since my business has been very slow to dead the past two and a half years. I have been home quite a bit with the kids because of it. Because of it I have been able to take them to their piano, guitar, drum and violin lessons. Soccer, swim, gymnastics, basketball practices. Some solo time for me to fish. Life is actually good. Only have like 3 years left on the mortgage and it will be even better. BTW, I'm still using the credit card but still pay it off in full every month. I know we kinda part ways on that but I have the discipline so it never carries a balance.

Enjoy the family time. You earned it, literally.
 

WaveDemon

Not Dead - Notable Member
Location
Hell, Florida
We're about to get one big step closer to freedom.

I'm hoping to get another (better) counter offer to settle a big unsecured debt today. We're hoping for a slightly better number than our first contact with these animals.
 

WaveDemon

Not Dead - Notable Member
Location
Hell, Florida
I'm assuming he means credit card companies?

Wavedemon - Can you not make payments and hence why you're trying to settle with them?

Doug

for a few years now they didn't want payments, I thought it was because of my long unemployment (i'm 3-4 years behind). Now that we're making settlement offers they seem open to it but I don't want to make payments. They've told me they'll take half in a lump sum after I offered them ~25%. If they come down just a little I'll pay them off.
 
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douglee25

m3booooy
Location
South Jersey
for a few years now they didn't want payments, I thought it was because of my long unemployment (i'm 3-4 years behind). Now that we're making settlement offers they seem open to it but I don't want to make payments. They've told me they'll take half in a lump sum after I offered them ~25%. If they come down just a little I'll pay them off.

I got you. Well make sure whatever you do that you get it in writing. Also make sure you include verbiage to say that the debt was paid in full as of X date and that they will provide you with a copy of your updated credit history showing that it was removed.

Doug
 

WaveDemon

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Location
Hell, Florida
I got you. Well make sure whatever you do that you get it in writing. Also make sure you include verbiage to say that the debt was paid in full as of X date and that they will provide you with a copy of your updated credit history showing that it was removed.

Doug
yep, I've actually got a lawyer representing me and making the calls for me since this has gone way beyond collections calls by now. I'm in a hurry to get this one behind me. My wife's student loan is next...
 

The Penguin

triple secret probation
I got you. Well make sure whatever you do that you get it in writing. Also make sure you include verbiage to say that the debt was paid in full as of X date and that they will provide you with a copy of your updated credit history showing that it was removed.

Doug
I doubt that will happen. when you settle for less than what is owed - they will place a note on your credit file that it was a settlement and it will affect your credit score.

accurate information can't be removed from a credit report.
 

WaveDemon

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Location
Hell, Florida
I doubt that will happen. when you settle for less than what is owed - they will place a note on your credit file that it was a settlement and it will affect your credit score.

accurate information can't be removed from a credit report.
It doesn't really matter, I'm going to stay away from using credit anyway. I'm not going to let my credit score change what's best for me and my family. What is best for us is to get out of and stay out of debt.
 

douglee25

m3booooy
Location
South Jersey
I doubt that will happen. when you settle for less than what is owed - they will place a note on your credit file that it was a settlement and it will affect your credit score.

accurate information can't be removed from a credit report.

That's fine. As long as it shows no outstanding debt, he's in good shape. Credit history can be repaired within 2-4 years.

I know a woman who left her ex boyfriend. While they were together they had credit cards which were used to purchase appliances, carpet, etc in both of their names. The boyfriend was abusive, so she left. The ex bf stopped paying the bills for stuff that he now lived with. After the collections agencies came after both of them, he didn't want to pay anything. Lawyer this, lawer that, letter this, letter that.... the guy wasn't moving. She was sick of waiting around and wanted to get her credit history repaired (she had outstanding history prior to this incident). She made settlement with the company and paid it all off... stuff she never saw from the ex in order to clear her name. Within 1-2 years a significant jump in her credit score occured. Within another 1-2 years, it doesn't even show up now. Credit score repaired.

Doug
 
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