It's not a complaint thread, its a give me advise thread. I shared my issue to get advice. Its a small sport, I know many can easily figure it out but I did my best to minimize that. I appreciate everyone else keeping names out of the thread. I purposefully left the person/business name out of this as well. I've no intent of slamming or bashing them. Heck you can delete this after it served its intent for all I care.
I rarely ask the court of public opinion for there verdict. I guess I just wanted to see tho. I feel myself reaching my limit and wondered if I'm out of line. Its been 5 months and honestly, this has hardly bugged me. When I think of it I message him, then I forget about it.
I'm always chasing dreams, pushing myself, planning something with my money and time. Sometimes it makes me look at my "resources"... what I have and what I can give up to get what I want. I'm working on some goals and plans last night, it reminded me about this money I had tied up. Thinking out loud, yeah because I'm stretching myself I'd really like that money back or a pipe to sell to recoup some cost. That's not his problem, its mine. That's not the real issue tho.
The real issue is that I did not force or set this expectation, he made a free choice and commitment. One I then set an expectation on. I didn't force that commitment. I rightfully expected follow though on what was promised. Multiple times over many months - no follow thru. That's the real issue.