Concept: Free range parenting....
Recently i've been partaking in what I call 'urban wheeling' where i'll go and drive around on grades, dirt piles, etc. Anything that a half ton Chevy would probably struggle with. I always do it with my kids in the car.
A few months back they built a Sprouts on the road to my Son's day care. In the process of building it, they made this rather large 'pile' of dirt. It's more of a groomed pile. Probably 20-25' tall, 400' long, 80' wide. I'm guessing. The ends are very tapered, you could get up it with an Accord. But you could get into a lot of trouble if you go up or down the sides in the wrong spot, in almost any vehicle.
Anyhow, i've been eyeballing this damn pile for literally months. I've been nervous about driving on it, I guess because it's on private property. But yesterday I finally said screw it. I knew we were supposed to get a lot of bad weather last night and today, so it was 'now or never.'
I don't know who got more out of this little side trip, me or them. Once I was up there I thought "why did it take so long to do this? What were you afraid of ya big dummy!" It was a reminder that I need to experience more, step outside my comfort zone, loosen up.
Regardless of what it did for me, this is what I want my kids to remember. To explore. To take chances (carefully). Who knows if they'll remember being on that hill yesterday, or standing on the roof of my truck in 25mph winds, babbling about how "high up" we were. But i'm gonna keep making memories, and we'll see what sticks.