You aren't towing correctly if you are ripping out a bow eye or the lip was already compromised from a previous darting. There's no need to use the pole bracket. I wouldn't use this unless last resort and would definitely tell others not to, especially with a stock bracket.
On another note I'm glad you still have your ski Josh. Recovery efforts could have been better but poop happens fast and at least you had a good ending. But man, hearing you state that it could have been a $27k(?) loss I can't fathom why you wouldn't spend another $30 - $50 on a tow rope and some kind of floatation.
Unfortunate thing is this won't be a lesson to someone else down the line as they think it won't happen to them and they'll lose their ski. Especially when there's a X welfare program to send these folks freebies.