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- Houston, TX
Trivial complaint of the day: surf sucks. And cold weather is coming. Damn!
Meanwhile on the west coast...
Makes me envious
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Trivial complaint of the day: surf sucks. And cold weather is coming. Damn!
We here for you brother.You pretty much nailed it. At least she is being honest. She tells me I'm a great guy, a good husband and a great father, but as Harrison quite aptly put it "the candle just went out". So, as you imply, a marriage counselor or something like that is not going to help, because we don't have problems with our marriage, we get along great actually, and both treat each other very well. It's just that her feelings for me have faded and she wants to move on.
At first I was pretty devastated, but as I began to mull it over, I thought "you know what, this may not be the end of the world". I won't feel guilty if I am working on a project all day/week and not spending time with her. And I'd rather be doing stuff in the evenings like going to the gym or learning to play guitar, or taking scuba courses or whatever instead of sitting in front of the TV with her watching Law and Order reruns because I don't want her to be sitting there by herself. Know what I mean?
The real kicker though is that I have been saving $$ my entire adult life and not blowing cash on fun stuff(to a point), padding my 401K, etc. so that WE could have a comfortable retirement, buy an RV and travel to all the National Parks in our golden years. And now that sure ain't gonna happen. And of course I was thinking of bringing our future grandkids to Storyland and Disney and stuff like that together. ...............................FARK!!
Sorry for the rant, jetski brothers, but I haven't mentioned this to anyone yet. I haven't even spoken the words out loud, but it feels better to be able to share this with someone.
Peace.
You pretty much nailed it. At least she is being honest. She tells me I'm a great guy, a good husband and a great father, but as Harrison quite aptly put it "the candle just went out". So, as you imply, a marriage counselor or something like that is not going to help, because we don't have problems with our marriage, we get along great actually, and both treat each other very well. It's just that her feelings for me have faded and she wants to move on.
At first I was pretty devastated, but as I began to mull it over, I thought "you know what, this may not be the end of the world". I won't feel guilty if I am working on a project all day/week and not spending time with her. And I'd rather be doing stuff in the evenings like going to the gym or learning to play guitar, or taking scuba courses or whatever instead of sitting in front of the TV with her watching Law and Order reruns because I don't want her to be sitting there by herself. Know what I mean?
The real kicker though is that I have been saving $$ my entire adult life and not blowing cash on fun stuff(to a point), padding my 401K, etc. so that WE could have a comfortable retirement, buy an RV and travel to all the National Parks in our golden years. And now that sure ain't gonna happen. And of course I was thinking of bringing our future grandkids to Storyland and Disney and stuff like that together. ...............................FARK!!
Sorry for the rant, jetski brothers, but I haven't mentioned this to anyone yet. I haven't even spoken the words out loud, but it feels better to be able to share this with someone.
Peace.
I have to pull the turbocharger out of a Ford 6.7L. I very much dislike working on Fords.
Damn dude. Keep your head up.You pretty much nailed it. At least she is being honest. She tells me I'm a great guy, a good husband and a great father, but as Harrison quite aptly put it "the candle just went out". So, as you imply, a marriage counselor or something like that is not going to help, because we don't have problems with our marriage, we get along great actually, and both treat each other very well. It's just that her feelings for me have faded and she wants to move on.
At first I was pretty devastated, but as I began to mull it over, I thought "you know what, this may not be the end of the world". I won't feel guilty if I am working on a project all day/week and not spending time with her. And I'd rather be doing stuff in the evenings like going to the gym or learning to play guitar, or taking scuba courses or whatever instead of sitting in front of the TV with her watching Law and Order reruns because I don't want her to be sitting there by herself. Know what I mean?
The real kicker though is that I have been saving $$ my entire adult life and not blowing cash on fun stuff(to a point), padding my 401K, etc. so that WE could have a comfortable retirement, buy an RV and travel to all the National Parks in our golden years. And now that sure ain't gonna happen. And of course I was thinking of bringing our future grandkids to Storyland and Disney and stuff like that together. ...............................FARK!!
Sorry for the rant, jetski brothers, but I haven't mentioned this to anyone yet. I haven't even spoken the words out loud, but it feels better to be able to share this with someone.
Peace.
Not to give any ideas but...Wtf really ups. I shipped a motor paid on paypal, I didn't trust a card board box. So I got a rubber tote, I get email from theme this morning there was some adjustments in price, them sobs charged me extra 9 bucks cuz it wasn't in a cardboard box
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We were really getting excited about selling our house and building our dream house next year. We had a contractor come in and give us an estimate for building it. He comes in at 440k for a three bedroom house! Totally dropped a bomb on me. Said a house like we had picked out will run us like 140 a square foot. We had talked to several people including my sister who just bought a brand new house that are in the 85-100 a square foot price range. The higher end was because they had to include purchasing the land. Was such a disappointment talking to this guy. Hopefully i can get together enough serious bids from subcontractors to convince the bank to let me do it as my own general contractor.