This may get a little sappy, but my life has been far from perfect lately, so sometimes that makes the good times seem even more amazing. Ever have one of those moments when all is right with the world? Almost like an epiphany, where this serenity just washes over you? I can remember the very first time it happened to me. It was 25 yrs ago. We had just brought our infant son home from the hospital. It was his second or third day home and I was taking the 2:00AM feeding shift. So I am sitting on the couch with my baby boy in my arms giving him a bottle. His little eyes are just looking all around and suddenly he just looks up at me and stares directly into my face and then with the one hand that was not clutching the bottle, he reaches up and grabs my finger and holds onto it. Probably the best moment of my life.
Another of these times came when my wife, the kids and I were on vacation at the beach. All the adults were up on the patio having drinks and conversation, and all the kids were on the beach digging holes, building sandcastles, playing catch...there is a lot of activity going on. Then the sun begins to set and it was the most amazing sunset I'd ever seen. The entire beach full of adults and kids went completely silent and everyone sat in silence and watched as the sun dropped out of sight. Crazy.
Well, it's been a long time since I had a moment like that. And this is going to sound weird, and I know this situation should not even compare with the other two, and it certainly doesn't with the first one, but I digress.... I'm at the gym early this morning. I am there alone as it's 5:30 on a Sunday. Then this young woman walks in. She is fit and trim, but not 'skinny'. Built more like a triathlete. Anyhow, she has her earbuds in and is warming up/stretching out. I can see her mouthing the words to some song that only she can hear. She walks over to the pull up station, gets a good grip and starts ripping thru an endless set of pullups. And I am talking REAL pullups. Not chins, and God forbid, not cross fit kip-ups. Her back just begins to physically morph as her once thin frame exposes the real musculature she possessed. It was like a topographical map of the Andes. I am watching this, pretty much in awe, and thinking "she's a rock climber, for sure". Then all of a sudden while still in the middle of her pullups, she bursts into this Adele song, hitting every note dead on. I am pretty positive she didn't even know she was singing out loud. That was the moment folks. Even now as I type this the hair on the nape of my neck is standing on end.
You never ever know when one of these moments will happen. I hope you all have one very soon.