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- Harveys Lake PA
Guys, try working a full time job AND building hulls... My wife has not seen me in almost 3 weeks for more than 10 min at a time or to sleep. I say screw it, do what you enjoy!
True to this, I didnt buy an AM ski to be told when I can and can't ride itJust don't puss out and give in. Game over after that, forever. LOL.:fing02:
if you aren't married, then it's your money and WGAF what you do with it.I was reading this thread while on the phone. It seems that I should be going to an August wedding of two people who I have met once, going to BC to visit some people I have never met (also during August,) going to a 40th birthday for a girl I have seen possibly 3 times this Saturday.... oh, and would I like to get together for supper on Sunday.
I now have to find at least 3 reasons that I cannot do these things (I will do one of them, but planning 4 weekends of my summer away from my ski in one phone conversation is stupid.) I will make up half lies. My grandparents really are moving. They hired movers, but I am certain that they will need some support. I can take a load to the dump for half an hour and spend the rest of the day with my 300lb true love of fiberglass and metal. I am pretty certain that I have a planned reunion with high school buddies one of those weekends and ... any other suggestions?
I do not like lying, but if I did not I would have every second of my time spoken for months in advance. These 4 new things are in addition to nights that I have already agreed to block off for her (a night at the opera, a night at the theater, her birthday, my birthday, her brothers birthday, her family BBQ among others.) The main problem is that I plan very little in advance aside from knowing that I want to be on the lake as much as possible... so when she says that there is a wedding in August and the only plan I have is being with my ski she assumes I do not have plans (the ski is not really a plan as such according her view... just something I like to do.) I actually refer to it as cheap therapy. It is either hours each summer with it or hours on a leather couch...
I suppose the only real good thing reading this thread is that we are not close enough that she has any thoughts of where my $$$ goes. Having to lie about time in addition to $$$ would be a little tougher.
glad I have a GF that loves my passion as much as I do........View attachment 190820
Very funny thread. You have a decision to make dude. Do you want to be alone or do you want to come home to a sweet piece of love ??? Gotta do it all. Take Saturday off and make her a special day. You will see she will come around and your life gets better tight away. All these saying crap like screw her just ride are the guys that are ALONE today and will be ALONE tomorrow.
My wife knows that is is very important to me and when I come home I am almost always happy. Then I throw down and make a Gourmet dinner and life is good.