I agree, we moved here because we thought the HOA was a good thing. It would protect our property values. The problem is the people running it and no one wanting to step up and replace them or pay for a management company. My wife is not a person to be rude to any one, so the being nice approach just ends up with her being trampled on... My from my view, the good neighbors are the ones getting harassed in my neighborhood because we are the ones who actually respond to them. It's like them justifying their job by making sure we know their there and watching... The crappy homeowners do what they want with no consequences.
We have a purple house 3 doors down and they have not been forced to repaint or have been fined. They have huge parties with all their ricer friends and have the cops called on them all the time. Another neon pink looking house another street over. The wooden fence around the exterior of our neighborhood is missing planks all over the place and is warping. The front entrance looks like trees are about to fall over is not kept up with either. Driving by you'd think they were filming the Walking Dead in my neighborhood.... My neighbor (I call it the Cambodia halfway house) besides the siding missing and rotting away, keeps their yard a mess. The front bushes are never trimmed, they don't own a lawnmower (he literally uses hand scissors to cut the grass), there are flowerpots everywhere they use to grow vegetables in the front yard, and the backyard is basically their trashcan. I complained (numerous times in writing) to the HOA emphasizing the impact these things have on property values, and they did absolutely f*ck all.
The president told us at the last (once a year) meeting that they don't fine anyone because they can't afford the lawyers/collection services to enforce them, which explains why people get away with whatever they want. We have people, like my neighbor, who hasn't paid the $100 fee for 5 years and don't even have a lien placed on their house. As mentioned, I suggested the rate increase and no one is open to it let alone anything else. I know voting is how its done but our covenants state it has to be 51%. Well, we barely get 30 of the 100 homes to show up for the once a year meeting so even if we voted on something, it wouldn't matter.
Our next meeting should be coming up soon. I'm open to more ideas if you got them on how to deal with this...