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Pablo

sqeez bth levrs & lean bk
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Marriage is tough and staying together is tougher when it isn't love... because there's no emotional/spiritual/chemical bond, just a physical bond for whatever the situation is calling for (kids, appearances, etc). I remember when u originally posted about the divorce. It otally understand and feel the pain especially when u bare the burden of making things amicable for your children. The relief of being able to move forward with life is a huge lift. Keep ur chin up. There's no way to make someone love you. You can only be you and in return expect the other person to be honest with you. Sounds like she's done that. It's hard to say goodbye when so much is invested in the relationship but it's a 100% 2-way street that won't function without both people getting what they need. One side can't give it all and the other take. If you've spoken ur peace and it stands as it is now then Yall have made the correct decision. Like health care the course of treatment is sometimes as painful or more as the original insult. Sounds like you've both raised children that are on a great course in life. Myself being a child of divorce, I've always thought that it's better to be from divorced parents that are able to love me and respect the other patent than to be in a married household where things are always on edge or stressed to where the love for the kids gets clouded by a completely failed marriage. My parents were way more enjoyable after they split and had time to find life and love where they wanted. You sound like a good father. Hang in there. There's no good life or perfect life, there's just life. Live it the best you can.
 

SXIPro

JM781 Big Bore
Good luck dude! Just make sure you stay very involved and continue to show them lots of love and it will all work out.

My mom told me that her and my dad were getting divorced about a week before I went to college....I lost it and spiraled out of control my first year at college.

I can only imagine what you went thru. And I am keeping the house so I'll be around for my daughter daily, and we will both use our stress relievers to get thru this....(her B1 and my SJ). My son already moved out last year, but every sunny Sat or Sunday, or even a nice weekday he'll come by and take out his SN with me. I've always been more involved than my wife with the kids. I'm just a more active individual than she is and my kids have always just wanted to be outside on the water playing, which suits me just fine.
 

Fro Diesel

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Kzoo
Yesterday I learned that 1211 is not ethanol resistant... I used it to seal the top of my thrust tank gasket since it says "fuel resistant". After two weeks it turned to mush and clogged up my fuel filter.
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You gotta wonder what that ethanol is doing to your needle and seat and everything else! Ever run ethanol in a lawnmower? It will funk up the carb in a season or two.. i was using only pure gas up until daytona (i was lazy and eager to ride) spent the spring season chasing carb problems until i completely refreshed them with oem parts. Fml. F-ethanol
 

Roseand

The Weaponizer
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Wisconsin
You gotta wonder what that ethanol is doing to your needle and seat and everything else! Ever run ethanol in a lawnmower? It will funk up the carb in a season or two.. i was using only pure gas up until daytona (i was lazy and eager to ride) spent the spring season chasing carb problems until i completely refreshed them with oem parts. Fml. F-ethanol
Haha, our family business sells and fixes landscape equipment so I know exactly what thats like. Ethanol has made us a lot of money!
I have not had any issues in my ski with ethanol however. OEM mikuni parts are pretty good I've found.

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Fro Diesel

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Kzoo
Haha, our family business sells and fixes landscape equipment so I know exactly what thats like. Ethanol has made us a lot of money!
I have not had any issues in my ski with ethanol however. OEM mikuni parts are pretty good I've found.

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You should know where to get the pure gas then. Seriously tho, might save you some headaches in the future. I thought it was no big deal, and i always treated my ethanol gas with ethanol treatment, too.
 

Roseand

The Weaponizer
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Wisconsin
You should know where to get the pure gas then. Seriously tho, might save you some headaches in the future. I thought it was no big deal, and i always treated my ethanol gas with ethanol treatment, too.
Only place to get pure gas where I ride is about 45 minutes away so it's super inconvenient.

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Fro Diesel

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Kzoo
Saltwater and ethanol daily


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What about the guy who only rides once every month if lucky? If only i could brap eryday. I guess youre right its cheaper to run ethanol and swap needles every so often.
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But, i need to be able to swap batteries in between garage breaks and lathe seshs. How many hours you getting on that device that requires a propriety charger? Jk
 

OCD Solutions

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Rentz, GA
What about the guy who only rides once every month if lucky? If only i could brap eryday. I guess youre right its cheaper to run ethanol and swap needles every so often.
@ocdsolutions
But, i need to be able to swap batteries in between garage breaks and lathe seshs. How many hours you getting on that device that requires a propriety charger? Jk

My skis sit with ethanol fuel in them for months at a time. My wife's has gone out twice in the last year and cranked right up with old fuel and no primer even.

Proprietary charger? You mean a USB cable? I charge mine overnight and then plug it into my computer to charge if needed. I use my iphone as a hotspot when I'm at work which kills the battery quick so it's usually plugged into the laptop. FWIW, my Galaxy S5 was the same way.
 
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Iowa
So, today is the day I get to break it to my kids that their parents are getting divorced. I am pretty sure it will be awful, even though they are both technically adults. The good news though is that I'll finally be free of this guillotine I've had hanging over my head since my wife broke the news to me last Labor Day. 9 months of keeping this a secret has taken an incredible toll. The closer the date came to telling them, the worse it got. Over the last 6 weeks I've lost 16 lbs. without trying. To put this in perspective, I typically run at about 14% BF, so it's not like I was trying to slim up any. Stress is 1000000% better than Hydroxycut in this regard. But in all seriousness I could certainly use some positive vibes from my jet ski brethren today.
What is happening is you are being presented with an opportunity to be single and happy again. If I were you, I'd be using my hot pork sword to slice up all the uterus you wish you could have while you were married. I'm almost jealous.
 

Roseand

The Weaponizer
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Wisconsin
The lake we have a place on just posted a sign for "no wake" due to water levels being too high...

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In the last phase of my motor build. Came in monday morning and my pass side exhaust manifold is gone off of my workbench. Tear the shop apart trying to find it. Finally i call the guy who comes by and gets our scrap metal. He says they only took what was in the scrap barrel from the shop. So tben i call the guy whose house they keep scrap at. He says yeah theres an exhaust manifold sitting right on top of the pile here. I go get it, and this morning i tell our manager lady about the issue. She calls the scrap guys and bitches them out about taking stuff. Come to find out its the owner who is throwing all my stuff out in the first place. Last time it was my radiator now my manifold, last time i ever do a major project at work.
 
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