Oh and i meant to say before this has been looking like i complained to paypal. I havent even filed a complaint. I thought me and him would be able to handle this mano y mano but i guess thats not going to happen and im going to forced to take a route i didnt want to take. I really thought that when i bought this motor from a known member on the X that it was going to be a legit deal and if problems like this arouse it wasnt going to be handled like a backyard redneck salvage yard. If the motor ran for a couple hours and blew up it might be different. It blew up from nothing that i had anything to do with.
Well, Wideopen came on here and posted a question on how to handle the situation. This is a $hity situation for both of you. He owes you nothing, but I'm sure he feels bad about the situation. I don't think he tried to pull one over on you. I have recieved many parts on here that didn't turn out to be quite what I expected, quality and/or condition. Buyer beware.
IMO both parties should sleep on this for a couple nights and take into account input from the board. (not comments like your an idiot, ect) Hopefully you can come to some compromise and work this out civily. Look at the big picture and don't get caught up BS from people rileing you up. At the end of the day is it really worth the worry and stress? my $.02
Why can't we all just ride along together?