I gave it more thought:
My focus was not weightlifting, my focus was dance (and def not stripper stuff of course, lol, not my type of thing as most know)! I personally had no desire to look buff in an unnatural way; I am sure I could have, and you can personally end up looking that way, if you are not careful (perhaps that is what you desire, so no offense). I personally quit hard training of all forms when I was a few years younger than you (I think you are 29 or something/not sure of course/I don’t know you/never even talked to you other than once/twice, very briefly), out of necessity (had a hernia/born with it/did all my years with it/not knowing). I wish I had continued after the surgery, but I did not (I hung out in Jamaica, lol). I have not properly trained since, merely remained athletic instead (I ski now). I didn’t have to, because I had worked out so very hard when younger. I am probably about to pick it back up though, when I have more time. On that note: hyper extensions are actually a bad thing, this is why I suggest to balance all. Also, I use to lease a room to a former Mr. USA (Masters), so I am familiar with weight lifting and proper nutrition. As I mentioned, gymnastics is another alternative (I loved it); I merely offered to you what I thought could be most beneficial overall. Take it or leave it of course…I posted it for the benefit of all.